Women love oral pleasure. However, what’s often missing from the pussy-eating conversation are all the things that happen behind the scenes. These subtle aspects of sex usually occur naturally and contribute to the overall pleasure of the experience for the giver and receiver. Knowledge of these special touches can take performance and enjoyment to another level. Ignorance of them can result in bad head. Yes, bad head is a thing. It’s normally easy to tell whether you’re a good head-giver or not. However, feelings are involved, and sympathetic partners may sometimes let out extra moans and even fake whole orgasms (They shouldn’t be able to actually pull this off). If your sex life is great and you’re eating pussy like a pro, then this information might give you some insight into some of the things besides the actual licking and sucking that might be contributing her mind-blowing experience. If you are looking for pointers on eating pussy, then you can add these tips in with your pussy eating skills. The three secrets presented here are not about HOW TO lick the pussy (sorry). Now, let’s take a look at these sensual subtleties. I have organized them into three categories: comfort and confidence, engagement, and results orientation.

#1 Comfort and Confidence

Women are especially intuitive and sensitive to energy. As natural nurturers, they can easily pick up on feelings of insecurity and discomfort. These subtle cues can make her feel awkward and obviously interfere with any attempt to actually enjoy what you’re attempting to do to her. On the other hand, women are turned on by confidence and appropriate levels of aggression. These qualities are masculine and they let her know that she’s in good hands. Therefore, you should make yourself at home when you go down. Don’t act like a stranger, or even a visitor. Your whole approach to the pussy should read “This pussy is mine” (even if it actually isn’t). Before you even give it the first kiss or lick, she’s already about to explode because of your energy. If you seem uncomfortable, then it has the total opposite effect. In that case, she’ll be wondering what the fuck your problem is. She might even think that it is something wrong with her (hopefully it isn’t). Either way, you’re going to have to give some amazing head if you don’t want her to be totally distracted and disengaged, not to mention dry and less receptive to your rock-hard cock. To sum it up be comfortable and confident in your approach and execution.

#2 Engagement

Whether it’s talking, eye-contact, or extra touches here and there, a little engagement goes a very long way. Again, these things usually occur natural as a normal part of sex, but the subtle things are often missing from the conversation in terms of identifying what contributes to or takes away from the overall experience. Believe it or not, sex can be boring, even oral sex. Partners vary in degrees of talkativeness in bed. However, the ones who like to verbalize things have a special way of putting the other person at ease and exciting her at the same time. For example, complimenting her as you work your way down, or upon arrival, is a nice touch. Verbalizing your own enjoyment of eating her out is another one. Let her know that you want her to cum on your tongue (or lips, or face). However, talking is one of those things that won’t have the intended effect if it doesn’t seem natural. Keep that in mind before trying to imitate your favorite male porn star (Do you have one?). Timing is also important. If you stop to talk when she’s about to cum on your tongue, then she will surely be disappointed. If you’re a talker and it works, then keep it up. If not, there are other subtle things that work. Ok, eye-contact is cool if you’re not excessive with it. Just look up occasionally to check on her and make sure she’s in absolute ecstasy. If she’s checking her watch, that’s a bad sign. The extra little touches here and there are electrifying because her senses are enhanced and she is super sensitive. Just rub or squeeze or kiss wherever you’d like (After all, you own that pussy). It is guaranteed to heighten her pleasure. It’s really just about communication, whether verbal or through body language. It’s one of the perks of fucking a live human.

 

#3 Results Orientation

Knowing what results are important and focusing resources to achieve them makes you a great administrator and a great pussy-eater. Eat that pussy with a purpose. You are on a mission. The secrets are integrated with your skills to bring about the desired results. Making a beautiful woman cum is an outstanding achievement. Lick and kiss, and suck your way into the legendary pussy-eater’s hall of fame (Doesn’t this exist yet?). While, you’re down there showing that pussy who’s boss, keep your eyes on the prize. If it still didn’t get the message, maybe it will when you pound it. Some learn faster than others, either way, beat that pussy into sweet submission. Be results-oriented.

The three pussy eating secrets are at work all the time, in various sexual encounters worldwide. However, they are rarely highlighted as important aspects of the experience. Perhaps it is because they typically happen naturally. Still, I think awareness of what makes us tick is intriguing, a turn-on in itself. Just know that everything you do matters, every word, every touch, every kiss, and every stroke. Own that shit.